Happy Thursday! Let’s Talk Topic: Broken Relationships:
Facebook memory updates will kill a vibe. I’ve been thinking about different areas of my life here lately and it so happened that I opened up Facebook the other day and low and behold a memory pops up. When I tell you my feelings were hurt for the rest of the day, I was in my feelings and I’m probably still in my feelings right now.
Open Letter: To All Those I Once Loved
I’ve been thinking about our friendship for a while now and it all makes sense now. We were there for each other in one of the most important times in our lives. I was broken beyond repair and lost. We kept each other encouraged and grounded. Made sure to always check on each other. Our friendship wasn’t one where we would go days without talking because we talked almost every day. As much as it hurts, life and prayers will put people in your life for the right reasons and sometimes take the same people away to show you exactly what you need to see. I never had to question if you would show up or show me up in the past but the present here I think we have both let each other down. It’s a part of life and seasons with people.
I’m saying all this to say thank you! I can’t take away any of the great memories and moments we shared but I can say I didn’t want you apart of the seasons but apart of the lifetime and the many great memories we would have shared in our futures.
When people paths go in different ways, things change and today I’m finally okay with it. I’m hurt but it will play out. This is to all the broken relationships that I have had and never had the courage to say these things then, I’m saying them now. Time doesn’t make the pain better but it helps the healing process.
Signed with love,
Someone that hates to let you go but it’s time that we part ways.
I’m releasing these feelings because I would blame myself of all the failed or bad relationships I would experience in life. I can’t live my life blaming myself for all the bad things that have been going on. I might have a part of helping it go to the bad but it’s not all my fault. I had to write and release this because I will hold onto things and it would turn into a health issue. I’m not living in that space anymore. I’m releasing all things that aren’t benefitting me positive ways in my life anymore, feelings included. No hard feelings. It took a lot for me to come to this point and since I’m here I don’t see myself turning back. This doesn’t mean I don’t love you, it just means we aren’t meant to be positive influences in each other lives anymore. I love you but I love me and you as individuals more.
If you are having a hard time coming to terms with a broken or bad relationship of some sort, give it time to reveal it’s true self to you. Don’t deny the feelings, the pain, the tears, the confusion and yes definitely go through all of the emotions that are involved with the process. Trust the process. If the signs are there don’t deny them.
I write for those that need to hear these words so that you can move forward with your life. You are not alone and this is not your fault. Stop placing blame on something that you didn’t completely destroy. If you feel like you need to reach out and speak to the person do so and not via text messages either. Text messages can get twisted up and things could go south so fast from a text. Get closure the best way you know how but stop blaming yourself. Please share if you have been through something similar, I love hearing from you.
Until next post with love!
Shine bright and don’t forget to Find Your Light!